November16, 2025

 Time has slipped away again and I am late in doing an update. The year is slipping away too and we are now in the midst of  Christmas preparations. Luckily I had the permanent lights put on my house so that is taken care of and I can use the lights year round. I am going to Utah later this week for Jaxon’s sealing and blessing so I will celebrate American Thanksgiving early with Trevor’s family while there and give them their money for Christmas. I need to be ready for that trip and I want to have Christmas almost ready at this end so I don’t feel behind when I get home.

I have had Joanne and Dave here for the last week and a half. They came to stay at Wagner Hill’s new facility with Jeff for a couple of days and with me for the rest of the time. They had planned a side trip to Victoria with a rental car but Joanne’s hip was bothering her and I think the driving was beginning to worry her too so they just stayed put with me. Dave’s boys picked him up and took him for dinner and a university basketball tournament where his grandchildren were playing. I think they had a good time. We were able to celebrate  Remembrance Day by going to our parents’ grave in West Vancouver and then to White Spot with Cindy’s family. Joanne and I went with Bela to the Little White House for High Tea and a shop around the House. We went to the Temple, out for dinner two other times and shopping at the mall. They flew in and out of the Abbotsford Airport so that made it easy for me. It was fun having them.

I had Camille’s children on the Friday while Keaton and Michael were here for their Youth Conference. I dropped the boys off at the church for their final meetings and their drive back home before I went for my Temple shift. I attended Book Club at Marilyn’s house and had a good time. She and Melissa served an English tea to go along with the Emily Lion journals we were reading, I have been trying to get final yard clean up done before the arrival of winter and tend to my other affairs and callings. I have been released as Ward Temple Prep teacher. It is my favorite calling. We celebrated Halloween with about 200 children knocking on our door. Kona hates the fireworks that follow the trick or treater blitz. I continue to drive Wendy on certain days for her dialysis. I had the three sister missionaries for dinner this week. 

I am busy and that is good but I am not feeling too well right now. My shoulder, hip and knee have been hurting these last few days and I have just been feeling generally unwell. I am sure some of it is arthritis but I would like to get things settled  down. Paul is coming to renew my Temple recommend later and I have asked that he give me a blessing too. I have not had a blessing since Tom’s passing.

President Oaks is settling into his calling as President and Prophet and Elder Causse has been called as the new apostle. Ever changing and onward.

Cindy and Paul helped me adjust my Christmas light color and get my tree in so I can continue with my Christmas preparations. Blessed❤️❤️

October 24, 2025

 I have had Camille and her family here this morning. Camille drove down by herself with the three children in order for Presley to have a check up at Children’s Hospital and then for Camille to attend the the Temple today. I watched the children while she was gone. She had a bad headache when she got back here so she took some Tylenol and rested a bit before carrying on to Jenn’s for the night. She is a trooper.

I also have Keaton and his friend Michael here for the senior’s YMYW conference. Rosa drove them down and I picked them up at Crash Crawlers in Coquitlam last night and drove them to the church this morning. I will pick them up tonight after the dance. They had their things all over the downstairs so I kept Camille’s family upstairs.

It was lovely having the Bull family last week. We had a busy but good time. They flew in Wednesday evening and drove a rental from the airport. We went to the North Shore on Thursday and had treats at Delaney’s in the Edgemont Village, drove by the schools, home, ski tram and had a fun visit to the Capilano Suspension Bridge. We went down to the Quay before coming back to Langley. We had lasagna for dinner and invited Paul and Sam. Cindy popped by and then went out for dinner with her friends. We went shopping at the mall Friday morning and then to Fort Langley, visited the cemetery, walked Brae Island to see the log boom at the end. Sam came for pizza and the evening with the boys and the adults went to Wabi Sabi’s for dinner. I stayed home on Saturday and worked on Thanksgiving dinner. Cindy contributed potatoes and yams and Rissa bought a pumpkin pie. They took the kids to Toy Traders and Scott and Rissa went out for awhile on their own. The Hardy family came for dinner, games and a visit. It was fun and we have much to be thankful for. They left early Sunday morning to catch their flight.

 

I have been busy doing some fall yard clean up, training new LOWs for Temple service, organizing Temple schedules and organizing my business affairs. The postal strike had held up the arrival of some important business mail and all finally arrived and I think it is in order. I met with Sherri from Eric Muir who left Eric awhile ago to take a job closer to home. Eric has now moved over to her company and I am thrilled as I love Sherri and their offices are now five minutes away. I have met with Sherri and been on the phone with Phil as well. I am trying to stay on top of things.

I am peddling fast and sometimes feel weary but I also feel lifted and blessed beyond my capacity. Tom is always near.❤️❤️

October, 10, 2025

 Oh my, I didn’t realize that so much time had passed since my last blog. Here goes a catch up.

Most importantly we all woke up to a scare on Monday, September 23. Rissa called me early to say that Trevor was in an ambulance on way to the hospital with a possible stroke or heart attack. Justin had tried my cell but it was in the bathroom and I wasn’t hearing it. Jadyn called me too and I called Cindy and Liza. I phoned Zach to check on him. We all started praying. Tammie let us know that all tests were clear and that they were sending him home. We later got the full story. He is on a high protein, low calorie diet and once in awhile he gets dizzy when getting up. He had a dizzy spell in the gym a few days before and that particular night, when he got up to go to the bathroom, he had a dizzy spell and cracked his head open on Tammie’s night stand. She patched him up and waited until morning to take him to urgent care. After getting eight staples in his head, Tammie and the nurse noticed that he was passing out and the nurse fearing the worst called for an ambulance to get him to the hospital. Tom had fainting spells and it appears that Trevor does too and sometimes has sudden drops in blood pressure and that results in these episodes. They thought he flat lined a couple of years ago when he had some surgery and did the same thing. Still very concerning and concerning for all of us who love him. He needs to make some live style changes.

I have been working on some business affairs such as getting my passport renewed, trying to register with CRA to set up an account so that I can pay my business taxes online. The passport is to be mailed to me and the CRA are mailing a security code to me to complete my account and Canada Post has gone on strike. Trevor has invited me to Utah the end of November for baby Jaxon’s sealing and blessing as his adoption will be finalized then. I need my passport and I have booked a flight. Canada Post will go to rotating strikes next week and hopefully that gets things moving. 

The Temple opened after closure and we have been busy with Live Ordinances. I am short on female LOWs and that keeps me scrambling to complete the puzzle and Ted let me know that he will be released as male LOW coordinator due to his wife’s health concerns. I will miss him.

I have been working with the Relief Society Presidency to rework the ministering list. We had a long evening meeting at the church and I suggested that they come to my house the next week and I would make them a light supper. They came this last Tuesday and I made them soup and Bran Muffins. The meeting was about 4 hours long. Oh dear! We are using the posters that I made of  the three districts.

Jonny drove out to bring Jeff’s dog Gertie for a visit. We met them at Brae Island and went for a walk with Kona and Gertie. Cindy and Paul came too and we had a nice visit. I bought everyone scones.

I had my eye appointment with Dan Davis. Cindy and I attended Toese’s 70th Birthday Party at the church. I had permanent Christmas lights put on my house and I love them. I can change color and configuration of the lights with my phone app.

Our dear President Nelson passed away at 101years old just a week before General Conference. The conference continued as planned with President Oaks presiding as president of the 12 Apostles. It has been a unique experience. Sadly, a very distraught man plowed his truck into one of our churches in Michigan during  Sunday services, began shooting people and set the church on fire just a day after we lost President Nelson. Several people were killed and more injured. They are working to heal and we are all praying. Church members and others have donated money to the man’s family to assist them as the police killed him in a shootout. Terrible situation. 

It has been a busy, difficult and blessed few weeks. We will miss President Nelson. He was remarkable and kept us all moving with changes and the ongoing restoration.

September 16, 2025

 Our dear friend Mike Richardson passed away suddenly the end of August and I attended his funeral with Marilyn and Cordell at the Coquitlam building last week. It is just another reminder that we are all on our individual earthly path, each with an arrival date and then a departure date we do not know but hopefully daily prepare for while also striving to live with joy. Mike and Carol are a great couple and Tom’s part in Mike’s decision to join the church has made their journey dear to us.

Cindy and I visited Jeff on September 5th for the Wagner Hills open house with the completion of their new housing accommodations. They have all been waiting for this for months and I am so glad Jeff has the opportunity to live in this beautiful new building. Jeff gave us a personal tour and the whole facility is lovely. I made him some of mom’s cookies and I think he was happy to have us there. He seems to be doing well and we pray for his success.

The Temple is on a two week maintenance closure right now but I went in a couple of times last week to aid with the cleaning of the Celestial Room Chandelier. I was shocked when I saw that it was completely dismantled. We have cleaned it before but left the crystals hanging and cleaned them individually. I didn’t help a great deal but Bela and Sharon Hara did the bulk of the work with assistance from a handful of others. I went back in the Temple Saturday to participate in a special session of Stake presidents and wives here for the coordinating council meetings. They needed an extra woman plus I helped as a worker when needed. I am washing my Temple clothes and dresses this week.

Liza and Sayde drove down on the weekend to attend the “Lion King” at the Queen Elizabeth theatre. We had bought tickets close to the Hardy family and drove down with them. It was a great production but I am still overwhelmed that people don’t dress for live Theatre anymore and they take drinks and popcorn in. A little sad I think. I took Sayde and Liza for dinner after my time in the Temple on Saturday and they drove home in the evening.

We have decided to have a Walker Family Reunion next summer from July 31 to August 6 in Whitefish. Rissa says we can use their mountain cabin and guest house. Exciting! I am hoping to honor their Walker heritage with Walker plaid as a theme. Missing our Walker boy.❤️❤️

Last bouquet of several months of  Mother’s Day flowers from our children.

August 29, 2025

 August 26 was our 55th wedding anniversary. I spent the day thinking of Tom, missing him and loving him. I went to the Temple and to then to the cemetery. Oh, how my heart aches for him but I also realize that he is still very much in my life and not far away. It is a complex yet dual aspect of my life at this moment. He has spent a lifetime making sure I was loved and cared for and that mission seems to be carrying on. One thing he consistently did throughout our relationship was COME FOR ME. I learned that, if I remained in place or on course, he would seek me out, return for me or show up for me. Let me give a few examples. When he received his mustang car for his 16th birthday, he soon after found Joanne and I at a church activity and took us for a ride. A few months after that, when I realized he was showing an interest in me, I was still just 14 years old. I could not date but he would claim me at dances and find ways to express his feelings. On my 15th birthday, March 16, 1965, I was starring as the lead dancer in our Junior High play “Ali Babba and the Forty Theives”. He turned up with his friend Peter to see the production. That summer, I was 15 and just graduating from Junior High. My family was spending our annual holiday time in Penticton and Tom convinced his father to let him take their waterski boat,  his brother Wayne and young visitor Bobby Gay to the Okanagan to join us for a few days. He was 17 at the time or just turned 17. During his mission to France and Switzerland, his family moved down to the USA for his mother to get her doctorate degree and my family were transferred to Vancouver. I was attending UBC. He returned home to his family for Christmas 1969 and the entire extended Tanner family went to Hawaii to celebrate his grandparents 50th Wedding Anniversary. He asked permission to leave early and fly to Vancouver to pick me up and fly on to Calgary to celebrate New Years together. When his plane landed in Vancouver, he ran to one end of the plane to make sure he would be first off, only to find that they were disembarking from the door at the other end of the plane and he was now last in line. I could see him through the arrival doors rushing to grab his luggage and then hurrying  out to find me. At that point I wasn’t hard to see or find. There are numerous stories but let me finish with one. Some years ago I was flying back from Boise and then riding The Quick Shuttle from Seattle to downtown Vancouver where Tom was to pick me. We had crossed the border and made our first Canadian stop at the country store and then on the the airport. As we stopped at the airport, Tom suddenly burst onto the bus and came running down the aisle to retrieve me. Everyone on the bus immediately turned to me as if they knew I was the one he had come to claim. He said he couldn’t wait for me to get to downtown and came to find me. He would go out into the world to work, to serve, to explore but he has always returned to me, to find me, to claim me, to love me. I know he will come for me again. Mary Harvey says that is one reunion she wants to witness. I do not care who else is there as long as when I look up, I see Tom Walker rushing toward me. 

Summer has come to an end. After staying with me for a couple of days, Max, Jacqui and Aksel flew home to Australia. Jack and Annika are driving back to Lethbridge after their visit. She will be off to serve her mission in Georgia and Jack back to school. Our USA grandchildren are back at school. I had my friends for a luncheon yesterday to finish off the summer and the sister missionaries, Jean and Cheyenne for dinner. Busy entertaining day. 

I felt very loved on our anniversary as our children acknowledged it, as I went to the Temple and felt the love and friendship to be had there and as Tom wrapped his heavenly arms around me.❤️❤️

August 17, 2025

 The days and weeks seem to pass so quickly and I realize I am behind on my recording or as I look maybe not as far behind as I thought.

The Hardy Family have returned from Europe and I drove out to the airport to pick them up in their big van as they had Max, Jacqui and Aksel with them. I had been worried about making the drive during rush hour in the big van but things went well. Liza’s family, after picking Breya up at the Kelowna airport upon her return from her humanitarian trip to Ecuador, drove down again to pick Sayde and Liana from their girls’ camp. Everyone returned last weekend so I had made lasagna and had them all for dinner Saturday evening. Everyone had, had good times on their respective adventures and Ross and Sarah had bought a condominium while their family was away. It had been a productive few weeks. 

It has been really hot of late but we have received rain the last couple of days. The rain is great and needed but not easy for Kona and I to walk in. She had a grooming this week and it is difficult to keep that fresh groom look when rain drops keep falling on our heads.

I have cleaned the house and the yard this week and have assisted with two live Endowments. August is proving a busy month at the Temple. Temple closure will be taking place in September and that is probably pushng people to get into the Temple this month. 

Bryson was having a difficult week on his mission with the lack of a transfer this round but he agreed to stay when the mission president gave him the option. Then the miracle happened - he received his admission to BYU in January. Very exciting! I am proud of my family and grateful for them on so many levels. They have their challenges but they soldier on. Love them all!

August 6, 2025

 Tom’s 77th Birthday was July 30th. I was on my own to do “random acts of kindness” this year so I bought my ice cream sandwiches and distributed them to Jean and Cheyenne, the Emily Leavitt Family, Jaqui Cardno family, Sam and the Sam Moore family. I tried Mary and Lincoln but they weren’t home. Jean and Cheyenne wanted to visit Tom’s grave with me so two days later we did and then went to Wabi Sabi for dinner. I was suppose to be paying but Jean quickly paid when I wasn’t looking. I get so upset with her. Carolyn, Ephraim and Sarah, his girlfriend called the day after Tom’s birthday wanting to take me out for dinner as they passed thru Vancouver on a road trip to Vancouver Island. That was fun to see them and share an Indian vegetarian meal. Jeannette called me the day after Tom’s birthday too when they were thinking of him. He was and is celebrated, remembered and loved.

Cindy, Paul, Max, Jacqui and little Aksel have been touring thru Finland, Sweden, Norway, Amsterdam and Ireland. It has looked lovely and they seem to have been having a good time, They arrive back here on  Friday and I am certain they will be weary. I am suppose to pick them up in their big van. Sam and I have been on our own. He has been over for two Sunday dinners and he came last Saturday with Ross, Sarah and Hansen while Liza's family was here. We took him for brunch on Monday morning too with the Burgess family as it was a holiday.

Liza and her family arrived last Friday evening driving two cars down as Niki Kenyon had kindly offered to take Sayde to the multi Stake girls’ camp on the island and she needed their wheelchair van for Sayde. Sayde’s friend arrived on Monday and stayed overnight. I got them off with Niki yesterday morning and then went to the Temple and cleaned the house. Liza and Brendon went to the Temple while they were here and picked blueberries with Sayde. Keaton flew into Abbotsford from FSY in Edmonton on Saturday. We went for a Brae Island walk on Sunday. 

Trevor and Tammie are preparing for a trip to Utah to meet Jaxon and are then bringing Jadyn and Treyson back with them for a visit. Treyvn is back at football and school. Rissa and her family went to the Bull family reunion at Disneyland and have been home doing activities and spending time at their lake home.

I have busy with my yard, my callings, my kids and my dog. It has been a warm summer and watering is required. Marie, my neighbor, has been away from time to time and I try to do some watering there too. Lincoln sometimes comes to water for her so I try to determine if he has come or not. I am busy, often tired but always blessed. Enjoying my new car and missing my precious husband.