Friday, February 20, 2026

February 20, 2026

 Life is ever evolving. Things happen quickly and you never know from one moment to the next what will present itself. I had a bad fall while out walking the dog in the evening February 16, Monday. It was dark and there was a branch with a couple of appendages on it laying on the sidewalk just around the corner. I think I was trying to maneuver around it when I realized that my feet were tangled and I was going to fall. I got twisted around with my back to the road and tittering on the edge of the curb, I fell into the street backward  and cracked my head on the pavement. I lay there in shock and mouning. A woman, who was out looking for bottles in the recycle bins, saw me and came to help me up. She could not speak English but kept talking to me. She handed me my toque, pointed to the branch that had contributed to the fall and left. When she saw me looking for something, she returned with her flashlight and helped me look for my black pearl earring that had fallen out. On the black pavement, in the dark, she quickly found a black pearl. I had said a little prayer and that fund was a miracle. Through it all, I did not let go of Kona’s leash. I hurried the walk and called Cindy when I got home because I thought someone should know in case I went into shock. My children have been checking on me. I still feel shaken and sore but I feel that I was very blessed and things could have been so much worse. Tom always said, “One moment can change everything.”

We had Molly Carlton’s lovely funeral service on Friday, February 6. They had it at our chapel and had kept it a little smaller by not announcing it to everyone. They had beautiful music, talks and prayers. It was perfect.

I have had an at home blood pressure check under my doctor’s direction, Kirk has pruned my front yard ginkgo tree and topped up the air pressure in all four of my car tires. He is so kind.  Charmaine and Cheyenne are both home right now and I took them all out for dinner last night to Wabi Sabi. We have put on two LOW’s training meetings - one Wednesday evening, February 11 and the other Thursday morning, February 12. They were well attended and went well. I made carrot cake. I had to rush after the Thursday morning meeting to Moxie’s to celebrate  Bob Water’s retirement celebration as he concludes his service as a Temple recorder. He has been serving in that capacity almost since the Temple opened. It was a great group of  my friends. Brendon, Keaton and three other young men stayed with me on the weekend while the boys attended a dance and did Temple baptisms. Always busy but good.

The Bishop asked to meet with me Sunday morning. He released from my current calling and called me to serve in the Relief Society Presidency with Melanie Leonard as President, Karin Chen as the other counsellor and Cinthia Miranda as the secretary. We have already had one meeting. Here we go.

Thursday, February 5, 2026

February 5, 2026

 I have been busy baking, cooking and hosting during these past few days. Melanie had book club this month and I offered to host it for her with Molly’s passing. She loved the book and really wanted to lead the discussion so I provided the home and the food and she presented. There were just six of us which was a perfect size rather than a large group asking Melanie difficult personal questions. So that took place on January 27th and on the 29th I had Mike Walker, his wife Becky and their 6 children arrive for dinner and to spend the night while enroute to Salt Spring Island. I had already invited the Sister Missionaries so decided to have them as planned and we just made a large group for taco salad,  cookies and ice cream. Becky and their daughter Pepper ran to the Temple to do baptisms. They have two daughters and four little boys. We had a nice visit. After their departure the next day I cleaned up and went out for dinner with Jennifer, Jeff and Jenn’s friend Kristen in the evening.We were celebrating Jeff and Kristen’s birthdays. Jennifer then stayed the next two nights with me while she attended Kristen’s daughter’s cheerleading competition, helped another friend pack up to move and spent some more time with Jeff. I was glad Cindy, Sam and I had taken Jeff a birthday cake, balloon and card on his birthday the week before as Wagner Hill’s had forgotten celebrate until someone finally realized the oversight. Jennifer left Sunday morning. This past Tuesday I hosted a baby shower for Tessy’s baby boy at my house. Jaqui, Melissa and Christina helped with invitations and food. We had about 14 ladies attend along with Tessy’s baby and her toddler. The toddler kept us all busy. In the process of all this I have made carrot cake, Mom’s cookies, Grandma Tanners’s bran muffins and cookie sheet cake plus fruit, drinks and cheeses. I took my last bran muffins over to the Leonard ‘s today in addition to fruit and bread Cindy had added. It is Molly’s funeral tomorrow and their family is gathering. Paul also attended a dinner with me at Moxie’s put on by Scotiawealth. It has been a busy couple of weeks and I have more coming next week and then Cindy and I fly to Alberta the end of  the month.

I took  Jean for brunch on January 23 to Saba’s using the Christmas coupon the Bull family had given me. Jean has a mid day break during her work days and that suited us perfectly.  The girls will be coming home soon. 

I usually attend the 11am session on Tuesdays at the Temple each week but Barb wanted to come and she didn’t feel she could make it before noon, so I met her then. She struggles with life generally and has a hard time getting to the Temple so it was good to have her make it there.

I am getting my banking in place and trying to use up the points from my old bank. We bought our plane tickets for Alberta with my points.

When people ask me how I am doing, I say, “Busy and that is good for me.” I am busy and that does keep me going with purpose. I appreciate my family, my friends and my neighbors who make my life worthwhile.